
Forcing adjustment is useless
Forcing a fit is useless, but not fitting anywhere is worse.
That's why it's important to direct your attention toward acceptance, even when you feel like you can't give it to yourself. When you realize that the path to moving forward is inward, then you're starting in the right direction toward adjustment.
It's funny how the mind, when it doesn't find the solution within itself, looks for it outside and in appearances. This behavior can generate consequences such as poverty, pain, waste of energy and, above all, frustration that can affect you physically, mentally and emotionally.
We should never trust a lying mind as an advisor, although it will always be an easy temptation to listen to and follow.
I am tired of gurus on social media promoting the easy way of the delusional mind and praising that it is cheap and effortless. They suggest naive actions, ideas and practices that do not give results, but are attractive to be believed. What if it works? I am not going to miss it. But in the end, you waste your time, your money, your faith, your effort… and especially on these topics.
The only way to find your true place is to start by discovering more about yourself and your true desires. It requires a lot of personal work, but in the process, you can't get away from having to make a living!
In my experience and ongoing quest, the game works with my personal effort to be the best human being I can be, while holding on to my essence and at the same time developing the skills and growth I need to reach my full potential.
Start there, ask yourself where you want to be and where you are today… Just don’t put it off for later, as your lying mind will surely recommend. Thanks for reading me. Leave me your comments. I read you, Dr. Roch.