Why do I make mistakes in love so many times?
Romantic relationships are one of the most challenging things a human being can face. They are not made for mediocre or cowardly people. They require the ability to take risks and emotional strength to dare to let go of one's loved one's hands.
Choosing a partner is not the key point of why you make a mistake. Many people believe this big lie and consider “I made a mistake in choosing”, but the mistake is in building the relationship with the partner you chose.
Why do we make mistakes about love? … because we believe that it is enough to choose the right partner and we forget that love is a daily challenge, it is a daily construction.
When one of the two stops contributing, building, being equal, the result is a mistake in love for both.
Choosing is also very important. We must not choose someone who complements us, that is prosthetic love, as if we were missing an arm or a hand and needed a mechanical arm or a mechanical hand or finger. We approach the relationship from a lack of what we lack and that is already a bad start.
Another reason why we make mistakes in love is because we go into the relationship from our desires, not from our reality, so we want to be for the other something that is not real, we want the other to be something ideal for us and that frustrates us and makes us take actions and decisions to stop building our loving bond.
Thank you for reading me, I am Dr. Roch
