SUCCESS CONCEALS WHAT DEFEAT REVEALS
You have to start by failing twice as much to succeed and be happier.
And above all, accept failure.
A lot happens when you fall and admit it.
To fall and recover is to have passed the test of paying the cost of growth.
It is noticeable when a person achieves success and becomes humble. They have learned from the pain of falling and realize that it hurts and costs money, suffering, anguish, rejection by others, criticism, disqualification, judgment, and perhaps disillusionment by a social reference group.
SUCCESS CONCEALS WHAT DEFEAT REVEALS
That’s why I wrote this a few days ago: People who have always been successful don’t realize anything; they don’t realize when they are wrong and blame others.
On the other hand, those who have fallen and recovered have the sensitivity of those who have suffered pain, which connects them to their deep reality of who they are and their imperfect being.
Perfectionists are intoxicated with cortisol, which affects the weakest part of the body. Check which one is yours: your skin, your eyes, your ears, your joints, your intestines, etc.
Overly preoccupied or perfectionistic beings are candidates for increasing their bitterness, if they are not already bitter. And what’s more, they hang out with each other.
Realistic people share their hopes with each other. It is excellent to set realistic goals and objectives. Let your mind fly. Think big and high, but always from a concrete reality.
Think big. Act small.
Thanks for reading.
Dr. Roch