Your self-love is the one who chooses your partners
DID YOU KNOW THAT IT IS YOUR SELF-LOVE WHO CHOOSE YOUR PARTNERS?
SELF-LOVE is not visible, but your thymus is aware of it.
It is not your mind that chooses a partner who accepts you. It always chooses the person who is similar in terms of self-love… In other words, if I do not respect myself, I will attract and choose a person who does not respect me. He clarified that the issue is not just that you like someone but that they accept having a relationship with you.
The mechanisms/patterns of behavior of Self-Love when choosing our partner have a lot of power because that attraction is given by your consciousness of the Thymus. It is the consciousness of reality.
In this way, it is not in vain that we notice someone affectionate if we have, for example, an urgent need for affection.
If something about your partner shocks you, analyze what he or she is saying about you, because the conflicts you have with your partners are the conflicts you have with yourself. But the same thing happens with your coworkers and your family members.
Everything that you do not accept in your personality you see in the other and you will be able to learn through him or her what you have to improve in yourself. No one can see themselves with crude realism. The mind observes us from the ego or from the appearance of what we would like to be and are not.
Many people, after breaking up with an unsatisfactory relationship, find themselves in a similar situation again and again over time.
This is because there is a common denominator in these relationships, they fall in love with a person very similar to their ex-partner and that leads to repeating the same result, the harsh reality always appears.
You have not grown internally as a human being, therefore as long as you are in the relationship, the relationship will have the same outcome.
From the conduct of raw reality (lived from the wise being, that is, from your Thymus), we know that when someone is “repairing” or “growing or healing”, this type of wounds and emotional deficiencies will repeat the same type of experiences that originated them, so that they can become conscious and be released.
A person may be repairing their relationship with one of their parents. The man or woman may then attract a partner who symbolically represents that parent and experience the same problems that they experienced with that parent.
For example, the case of a child who loses his mother (an alcoholic) who abused him, and as an adult he only associates with aggressive women who abuse him just as his mother did.
There are countless situations that could be repaired in your relationship.
Another example is trans-generational dramas, such as those involving children (issues of abortions, stillbirths, women dying during childbirth, unrecognized children, etc.), for which a woman (or a man) could have a repetitive behavior of “Not having children” and therefore attract partners with fertility problems or who refuse to have children. In this way they complement each other.
Nothing is random and to heal our relationships, we must heal the relationship with ourselves and increase our Self-Love with raw reality and this is done with your inner wise being called TIMO.
Carl Jung expressed it from his time with the concepts and research that he had at his disposal like this:
“Until the unconscious becomes conscious, the subconscious will direct your life and you will call it destiny.”
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– DrRoch
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