Love is not… Yes it is…

Love is not about being in love, blinded by an emotion that modifies the raw reality of what each of us are.

If it's about not letting go. To choose each day. Even knowing that there are better options out there. But none as real as the one next to you.

Love is not about avoiding fights, misunderstandings, or denying jealousy. It is about never making it greater than the desire to be together and to remedy it.

If it is to remedy what is broken and sew it up, wanting the patched fabric; if it is getting your hands dirty by cleaning up the poop you put in the situation, with the humility of knowing that you did not have that intention, even though you did it.

Love is about fighting for that someone you already have, it is not about waiting for someone better because your ego and mind lie, telling you that you deserve someone: more educated, younger, prettier, more mature, richer, etc…

Love is not about being with the right person, it is about making them right with your behavior, with your details, actions, affection, support and perseverance. Let them show you what they want. a lot who has waited for someone like you.

It's not about finding the love of your life, it's about building that love, wall to wall, until one day you find that you have a beautiful house (relationship) built together and that it is the most valuable thing you have.

That relationship (home) allows them to take refuge when they are scared, to rest when they are tired, to love each other when they are tired, to celebrate when they are happy, to call her Home, couple, marriage, bond, courtship, whatever the name is, it doesn't matter.

It's not the perfect silhouette, the symmetrical smile, the operated body, the face without wrinkles, the ideal in-laws, the impeccable house. Love is the person who makes you feel like a beast of this planet with their words, gifts, looks, attentive treatment and extraordinary kisses.

It's not butterflies and illusions from fairy tales. If it is stability, calm and realistic passion. If it is leaving fleeting, passing loves, interested in a disposable person, leaving those people who make you fall in love with unfulfilled promises, with well-told lies, with perverse seduction.

It's not about being cheesy, about making promises with no intention of keeping them,

If it's about kissing on the forehead, arriving unannounced, sending letters, staying even if you're sick, it's about DECIDING TO STAY WHILE HAVING THE FREEDOM TO LEAVE.

That's what raw, real love is all about.

What is wrong is not love, but who puts it into practice.

Thank you for reading me

– DrRoch.