A strong love – Part 3: Being consistent
BE CONSISTENT:
We must live paying attention to whether what we think, what we feel and what we do goes in the same direction.
The Smiling Consciousness of the scam, proposes that we avoid doing things that we do not like in order to please others or, what is the same, avoid starting to do things that we do not like just because we believe that this way the other person will want to be with us.
It is important to maintain our identity, to give ourselves permission to continue being ourselves, sharing life alongside someone who, in turn, gives themselves permission to continue being me on stage.
If at any time we detect that this is not the case, we can ask ourselves: What is a partner for me? Why do we want a partner? So we don't get bored? So we have someone to take care of us? So we don't feel alone? etc.
It is essential to continually question ourselves in order to detect our own inconsistencies, thus, we will stop wanting to change others and focus on our own evolution.
Thank you for reading me.
Dr. Roch.
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