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A Brave Man Wanted

Looking for a brave person to have as a partner, regardless of the scars he has from living in the reality of relationships and not in his head.

The message is clear: I need to date a brave man. This doesn't mean that you should try to live with a brave man if possible, no. It means that if he's not brave, don't date him. It's either a brave man or nothing.

No one should fall in love with someone who, after enough time, isn't able to tell you: "You're my bet."

Everyone needs to hear at least one “You know what? I’m taking a chance on you.”

I have witnessed great miracles with people who, after a seemingly tragic accident, get up and relearn a sport, play it again and win titles; who, after a great disappointment in love, find a brave person and rebuild their life as a couple… And yet, there was always someone who told them: “Accept it, that was your destiny and you have to give up”, “it wasn’t for you”, “it’s not your time anymore”. And yet they were brave and did not listen to these voices that stop and limit the human spirit.

Always remember who you are. You are not your mind, nor your body, you are your spirit and it has eternal qualities. Among them is NEVER GIVE UP while you are alive.

And when it comes to someone who wants to go out with you, you hear similar things like: “I'm focused on my job,” “I'm getting out of a painful relationship,” “I really love you, but I need time,” “As soon as I finish my studies, we'll get engaged,” and other excuses to ask for the benefit without paying the cost, to take away the pleasure of living with you, without having to prove that he loves you.

REMEMBER: If there is love, there is always a way.

Plato said it very clearly: “There is no man so cowardly that love cannot make him brave and transform him into a hero.”

We live in a time where there are no dragons to slay or lands to conquer, and where access to resources and opportunities are so abundant that knowing what you want and going after it is the only space for heroism. 

Today, the main problem is not that we cannot do it, but that we do not want it enough. Most of the things we do not do are not because of difficulty, but because of a lack of love, and this manifests itself with VITABYTES (real life energy).

I believe that courage is the greatest value that a human being can have. A brave person takes risks, chooses, takes sides, takes responsibility and creates his destiny. He is the captain of those who believe in his inner power, because he not only sees the good but pursues it and that is why he does not mind negotiating. A person like that can only make your life more abundant, a person like that shows that he is a multimillionaire spirit.

Courage, valor and determination, more than the absence of fear, is the awareness that there is something worth risking for. Determination is the force of love at the service of conscience. Courage and love are attributes that are seen in the mirror: he who loves, risks and he who risks, loves. Behind someone who risks, there is someone who loves with “Haztitud” (who does).

When you don't know where those brave people are, look at those who say yes, but shout no with their actions, because behind someone who gives up, there is a person who chooses, behind someone who chooses there is a person who risks and behind someone who risks there is a person in love.

Where there is a brave man, there is a “haztitud” with actions not with words and there is a lover.

What differentiates a brave person from a “coward” is that he doesn’t stand still at the fork in the road thinking about what he’s losing or what he’s giving up, but rather he sees in you a victory and a gain that’s enough to not have to turn back. He doesn’t step aside thinking that something better can always come along, because he accepts that the world is movement, that there are opportunities, that you are… that you both are. He knows that what’s important is not what there is, but what you can create, and that’s the complete reality that moves, and to do that you don't need to be perfect, you need to get down to work: ATTITUDE. (not just attitude).

A brave person isn't thinking about the women or men he lets get away, he's thinking about you. You are his bet and his choice, and anywhere else seems too much for him. second category.

You will never see a brave person making a list of pros and cons, because for them love is not a market, nor are you just another product. They leave rational decisions for loans, sales, purchases and never for their dreams. Nobody became rich in money and abundant in love by betting small amounts and with few risks. The brave take the risk because you are an experience that they cannot miss. Because not only does he who does not risk not win, he who does not risk not live. And you have to know how to take risks and when you identify someone like you: all that remains is to risk your life to feel alive.

If you think about it, many of the love headaches you've had could have been avoided by dating a brave man. So, next time you go to the real world of life partners, you just have to open your inner eyes (sentient consciousness) and capture in a way that you may not have done before and instead of searching through external categories: beauty, profession, surname, studies, either money, search by category I know who I am and I know what I want. Distrust the impeccable clean, the dogmatic and the shiny, and trust the blood and the worn, because the brave are full of scratches, wounds and healed scars, even if sometimes they are not visible. The brave fight in the acts, they are the ones who go down to the arena and risk it because they do not miss that experience. It is very difficult to find a brave person with an impeccable suit and body.

A brave person does not understand the stupid way culture values success, failure, loss and gain, because he believes that no one who has given everything can be asked for anything, and that the only thing that can truly be lost in life is not a partner, a party, a salary, jobs, they know that the only thing that is truly lost in life are opportunities to feel alive... Because in this life, it is not enough to have life.

Dr Roch