Exclusivity is better than sex
By Dr. Roch
Exclusivity fuels a person's excitement and is priceless. You must know that it is expensive: it is not begged for, is wonIt is acquired with the same respect you give to those you do want in your life.
Being exclusive gives you peace of mind because someone prioritizes you without diminishing your existence. It gives you tangible value in the face of any doubt, without the need to constantly demand proof.
Exclusivity is recognized in:
- Slow and constant dialogues.
- Perseverance in love.
- True, even if it means being your only option.
- Attention that makes space for you in the present without dragging wounds from the past.
It is the mutual between two individuals, which maintains coherence in the face of any claim.
Being exclusive does not mean:
❌ Give up on everyone in your life.
❌ Feeding egos all the time for fear of losing them.
Exclusivity is not begged for: the other gives it to you with unequivocal acts that eliminate doubts. When someone declares you “exclusive,” they are deciding that you —and no other— you occupy that privileged place in his life.
Behind you there could be people more prepared to give and receive love, but who chooses you He does it because he sees your unique value. Don't waste it by receiving without giving.
True exclusivity creates:
🔁 A continuous exchange of affection.
🛡️ Loyalty that defends your name even in your absence.
⏳ Dedication to the simple things (which for some “don’t count,” but are the essence).
It brings empathy, shared joy without lies, and loyalty that transcends the superficial. When someone offers you exclusivity, they are giving you an unprecedented space in his being —one that no one had ever held before—because he recognized in you what others failed to appreciate.
Before demanding exclusivity:
- Provide loyalty and respect first.
- Don't betray feelings.
- Don't underestimate those who believed in you.
Seriously reflect on the place you want to occupy in your circles (love, family, friendship). Don't turn this into an ego game where you use silence or distance to manipulate.
If you want to be exclusive, learn to give exclusivity. Appreciate every opportunity you are given, and you will never have to reclaim your place in the world.
Remember: Being exclusive is a privilegeDon't waste it; you'll never know what you have until you lose it. And if you lose it, you'll understand that the truly exclusive was who no longer offers it to you.
Want to go deeper? Join my retreat. “Naked Relationships” (check dates on my page). Tell me: what do you think?
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