Is divorce a failure?
I came to the conclusion that NO!!
We get married, we start a family, we're happy for a few years, but people change, and not always in the same way.
That's where love often ends. People say, "Their marriage failed," but in reality, many times it's about accepting the closing of a beautiful chapter in life to make room for freedom and not live a lie.
Failure is playing at being a "happy family".
Failure is deceiving your partner, your children, and most seriously…yourself.
Failure is staying for convenience.
Failure is manipulating your partner with the children.
Failure is living a gray life.
Failure is not coming home happy every night.
Failure is begging for the love of someone who no longer loves you.
Failure is pretending to love.
Failure is staying put out of fear of loneliness.
Failure is living by absurd rules for fear of "what others will say".
Failure is not having the courage to fight for your happiness.
Failure is believing that LOVE DOES NOT EXIST…
A mature divorce means respecting the father or mother of your children for life.
It's about knowing how to spend time with family as often as possible without ties or commitments, just for the pleasure of it.
A round of applause for all those who have had the courage not to live in failure!
And a standing ovation for those who are still happy and in love after so many years!!!
Fight for your marriage, but only when there's nothing left to fight for…
FIGHT FOR YOUR FULL LIFE.
Thank you for reading me
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