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A Strong Love – Part 4: Living in Unity

LIVE THE UNITY;

If we think that the other person is just going to fill our shortcomings, we will continue with them and when we do not have the other person, we will suffer. On the other hand, if the person who is at our side complements us, that benefits us because it teaches us something that we have to learn and integrate. Then, the other person is our blessing and not our misfortune.

When we live from the thymus we have the consciousness of unity, we stop living in projection to start living in ATTENTION TO THE REALITY THAT IS HAPPENING IN FRONT OF ME.

That is, we understand that there are not two, but a unit that complements each other. We are always facing ourselves. In this way we can stop being what we think we are to give ourselves the opportunity to BE WHO WE ARE… From the wise part inside (TIMO).

When we fall in love, the first thing we usually want is to possess the other person, and when we think we have him or her, we start to be afraid of losing him or her. Then, we discover ourselves to be possessive. That is the first sign of a lack of love for oneself. 

STRONG LOVE does not bind anyone, it does not want to possess. It is freer, it is living with someone in the CURRENT moment (in my book on Personal Reengineering I explain it in depth), without resentment for the past, or fears for the future; but with gratitude towards the other person, for sharing life and helping us to know ourselves better.

“People who enjoy satisfying and stable relationships are balanced beings. They don’t go looking for someone to “fill a gap.” They recognize their own worth.”
Attracting and knowing how to relate to a partner is not easy. Emotional self-management is key to achieving this. Situations such as not getting over a breakup, not finding a partner or not daring to make a commitment are a reflection of unconscious information that seeks to be understood.

If you want to go deeper, you can read the book Naked Relationships and the three-day Vinculante retreat.
Build a STRONG love with your partner.
We need good examples of couples to have evidence that a full life as a couple is possible.

Thank you for reading me.
Dr. Roch