A strong love – Part 2: What makes us fall in love with each other
PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT MAKES US FALL IN LOVE WITH ANOTHER:
We've all been there. We meet someone and we get a feeling in our stomach, like we have butterflies, and we say to our friend: "I just fell in love."
The mind needs to put a label on the physical sensation. What we love and that has no “explanation” is directly related to our INNER IMPULSES.
We say we fall in love when we resonate deeply with another person's information.
We “get together” with that person to develop that aspect that we need. However, precisely those aspects that initially make us fall in love may be the ones that we later cannot stand and will seem unbearable to us.
Speaking ability ends up being judged as verbosity, firmness as coldness, the intellectual ends up being a “know-it-all” and the person whose tenderness we were attracted to ends up being seen as weak or cloying.
This happens either because we have not yet fully integrated that aspect of ourselves and we judge it, or because we have already integrated it and we consider that we do not need that person to continue on our path.
Realizing this does not mean having to leave our partner, on the contrary, we can choose to evolve with them.
Thank you for reading me.
Dr. Roch
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